Definitely everyone recognizes some weakness points In his/her personality. All of us everyday face with the tension that we should have been better, stronger,… The most stupid human in the world is the one who think that he or she is in the best possible state and nothing could be better that this.

But what prevent us from doing something about those weakness points? What do we do when we face an undesirable attribute of ourselves?

-forget it,

-ignore it,

-become angry about it,

-blame the others,

-getting depressed,

-getting nervous,

-and in rare cases we try to change it. The result will be a step forward.

            Was it always like this? The answer is definitely no. We faced lots of dramatic and intensive tensions in our childhood. Massive developments occurred when we was under 10. I don’t say that developments are not happening in older ages but the scales are so different.

            As we grow up, we don’t only learn how to solve problems, but we learn how to dodge them. The question is that which variables and factors determine our reactions to the problems, whether to dodge them or solve them.

Monday 7 August 2006, London